HOLA HOLA HOLA HOLA. I know I've been slacking on this blog like (as Loli would say in a really thick Spanish accent... it's ok, she's a profesora) a mother fucker . But here I am! And I'm ready to write pages and pages so prepare yourselves. We have much to catch up on!
First of all, since we have last spoken, I have had three major notable weekends. The first was Ciudad Rodrigo for Carnaval, the next was when Bonnie came to visit me, and the third and perhaps most epic (not that the other two weren't) was this past weekend when I went to Barcelona. But before I start talking about these adventures, I want to talk a little bit about life here in the Manc, if you will. I have to say that I have been pretty happy here for the most part until about a week or so ago, when I realized that I actually LOVE it here and am starting to actually feel pressured by time... less than 2 months until my classes end and less than 3 until I'm back in Colorado. Crazy.
I think the most notable change has been my relationship with mi madre. Recently, we have been spending a lot more time together- for example, last night, we sat at the dinner table together for almost an hour talking and laughing and making fun of Nomutaka (no way that spelling is anywhere near correct, but he is my Japanese housemate- he's great. He's super weird and Conchi (mi madre) and I always make fun of him but he loves it, we think). She has taught me how to cook a few things and once cursos ends (1 week!!!!) we have plans to bump up the music and do cooking classes in the afternoons. A dream come true. Music, Spanish, cooking, eating... 4 of my favorite things. I'll tell you how it goes once we start doing it. We invited Nomutaka but apparently "no hago este tipo de cosas". Fine, you are uninvited.
Today at lunch we tried to explain to him why he needs a Spanish girlfriend before he leaves and convinced him that it would be beneficial for his language acquisition. I told him that if he ever wants to learn English, I am available. He just smiled and nodded... I was kind of offended. It's great because he only understands about half of what Conchi says because she talks so fast, so either I restate it or we all just laugh (Conchi and I because it's funny, Nomutaka because he doesn't know what else to do). It sounds kind of mean, and maybe it is, but it's the Spanish way. People here don't really take others' feelings into account.
That's another thing I love- the culture is really starting to find a place in my heart. Political correctness doesn't really exist here, and people say things as they see them. Social norms are wayyy more lenient than in America- people are snogging/actually conceiving children all over the streets (at first it really caught me off guard because I'm so not used to PDA in America, especially at the Glen (ha), but now I find it really endearing and sweet that people feel like they can be affectionate in public). Apparently, since everybody lives with their parents practically until they are married because apartments are so expensive, the only place they really have to be affectionate is in public... and my grammar teacher told us that when they're not having sex on the streets/in cafes RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME (actually... I'm watching two people do things I've never seen before), they are utilizing their cars. Like, apparently everyone here has sex in their cars all the time. Interesting little fact for you. In case you ever get a Spanish boyfriend/girlfriend, now you know what is expected. And I highly suggest that you do.
Speaking of my grammar teacher, I LOVE her and that class in general. It is every morning from 9-11 (rough, I know) but all of the students in the class have become friends with each other and our teacher is constantly teaching us the most interesting/useful things about Spain and Spanish culture (and grammar, claro, which I actually don't mind at all. It's so different learning grammar and vocab here because we actually want to learn and can actually use it every day.) I love coming home to mi madre with a new colloquial phrase and when she looks surprised/impressed, I say, "que piensas, Conchi? Soy Española" (I say it every time, it never gets old to her... it's really easy to make her laugh, I think mainly because she thinks my accent is funny. I like to pretend she just thinks I'm funny). Anyways, my Spanish has improved exponentially and that is probably one of the other reasons I'm loving it so much here. I can't describe how exhilerating it is for me to be able to really truly communicate with people here. It makes me want to come back and live somewhere in Spain at some point in my life. Every day I find something new to love about this place.
Ohhh man what else what else. I have so much to say but I want to get on to the best part! If I think of more Salamanca-y things, I'll write them in the next post (so, like in a few months). OK. So... Carnaval. Hilarious. We all dressed up (I wore a dalmation costume that was made for a 7 year old boy. Can you say SEXY?) and took the hour bus ride to Ciudad Rodrigo on Saturday morning. We got there and walked around the markets for a little until the running of the bulls, during which we all got comfortably seated in the stadium and had our morning drinks. As the men (no women whatsoever) and the bulls entered the stadium, we were all a little disappointed in the lack of action, but it was still fun to watch. Then we went to a square where a bunch of little huts/houses had set up booths and were giving away food and alcohol. Somehow, we got invited into this man's house and had an INCREDIBLE time. There was a big table, a bunch of middle aged Spaniards, and a lotttt of delicious Spanish food. We were dancing (some of us on the tables... it's fine, I'm sure) and talking and eating and drinking. They had a jug that LITERALLY must have been moonshine. I've never tasted anything like it. They also lied and told us it was water because I was saying how thirsty I was and since I was the first to try, I started chugging it. Never have I ever wanted to die so much. Needless to say, the day took a turn for the best after that.
The rest of the day was just walking/dancing/singing in the streets, entering and exiting different bars, walking through the markets and the fair, and generally have an incredible time. The only thing was that it was SO incredibly cold and we were pretty much outside the whole time. So instead of staying all night until the 7:30 am bus, we took the last bus home at night and spent the rest of the night in Salamanca, which was also very fun. I met a few people at Carnaval who I have since met up with and really really enjoyed hanging out with. One of them was a guy from Brazil who I saw a few times and had a GREAT time with him- hilarious and soo fun AND even though we always spoke Spanish, he could speak Portugese, Spanish, English, French, and Deutsch. It makes me feel like an idiot for being so proud of my semi-proficient Spanish. Anyways, Carnaval was really fun and definitely worth the cold (AND we saw a killing of a bull which I did not like at all- I thought I would be able to handle it but it was one of the most heart-wrenching things I've ever witnessed. No me gustaba para nada).
A few weekends later, BONSON, one of my trainees from the summer, came to visit me. She is studying in Zaragosa and came for the weekend to stay in my house with me (I can't believe Conchi let her do that- it is strictly against the rules). We had a GREAT time. It was really short but we made the most of it. Friday we went out with all of my friends, which is always a good time. Bonnie really clicked with them all and I think she had a lot of fun too. Then Saturday we got up early and saw ALL of Salamanca- the cathedral, the university, the river, the museums. It was great. Then we went back and had lunch with Conchi and then took a 6 HOUR siesta. We thought we could go shopping por la tarde but we vastly underestimated our exhaustion. Then we woke up, went out for tapas and ended up going to a movie (not before getting giant bags of alimentacion. mmm/way way way too much). The movie was looong and pretty terrible but it was in Spanish (so that's cool?). Sunday morning we got up semi early and went on a long walk by the river and eventually made it to the Sunday morning market. It was my first time and I LOVED it. We were there for almost 3 hours and Bonnie and I both bought our fair share of underpriced (maybe stolen) goods. It was great to see her and shnuggle with her in my tiny tiny bed all weekend.
Are you ready for the clencher! (Are you still there by the way? If you are sleeping/have passed away from old age in the time it's taken you to get this far, I understand. If you still have some in you keep going because there's a prize at the end.) SO, I just got back on Sunday from Barcelona. Jackie, Evelyn, and I left on Thursday morning (waking up that morning was like waking up on Christmas morning- which is usually pretty normal for me, but I hear it's AWESOME for some people). We took the bus to Madrid, the plane from Madrid to Barcelona, met up with Becca in the aiport, walked through Plaza Catelanya and up La Rambla, and finally made it to, I am convinced, the greatest hostel in the world (Hello BCN) where we found our (still living) roommate Jessica. We each got these watch-type bracelets that let us into the hostels, our room, and our personal lockers. Not only were they fashionable, but if you ever wanted to know what time it was, it was more than the right thing to do to make a bad joke. We met up with one of Becca's friends who studies there who took us around the city and then we ended up at this great tapas restaurant, where Anne made her fashionably late and dramatic appearance out of a cab, had some jars of sangria and delicious food, and went back to the hotel to get ready for the night.
The first night out was definitely the most fun. We went to a small bar and then to a club called Opium. By far the craziest, most fun club I've ever been to (which isn't really saying much, but it really was pretty incredible). It backs up right to the beach, has many different areas and levels, and was full of people. There we met up with Adriana and Jon and some of their friends from Rome. We stayed there until about 6 am and after a little walk on the beach and some samosas, we went back to our hostel for the night. The next day was very chill... we just walked around La Rambla, went shopping (I randomly ran into Alyson Lamb at H and M... so crazy!), ate some Durum (claro), went to the market, and then bought some bread, sausage, cheese, and fruit to bring back to the hostel. We ate in the common room downstairs- it was perfect... cheap, delicious, and we met a bunch of other people staying in the hostel. That night we went to a club again, Choco, but were all SO tired from the night before. We all somehow ended up getting split up and taking cabs back without each other, and as we were getting into bed, Jessica called and said she was still at the club. She said she was getting into a cab and would be home in 15 minutes. We all passed out and the next morning we woke up to find that Jessica was not in her bad and none of us had any missed calls or texts from her.
At first we were pretty calm, trying to call her and figure out what had happened, but after she wouldn't answer/hung up on us/sounded like she was drugged/being kidnapped, we started to worry. She was saying things like "you weren't supposed to worry until 9:30" and "I'm fine....?" and "blaeghh I'm Jessica Jia" (maybe/maybe not). We felt terrible for not waiting up for her, but also were upset at her for not answering and VERY worried that we had lost her forever! After giving her until 10:30 am until we called the cops, we went downstairs for breakfast. Sure enough, 30 minutes later, she walked in. Apparently (we were told by our friends who we met later that night) the entire room saw her walk in wearing her clothes from the night before and all 6 of us yelling at her and then her walking shamefully up to the room. HA. SORRY JESS WE LOVE YOU. Anyways... after that it became the running joke of the trip and, if you would be so kind as to look at Anne's fbook album, you will see that. The rest of the trip... and still... we were making references to how Jessica was kidnapped/almost died/disappeared/is dead/etc. I hope you see the hilarity of it through my shoddy explanation, or maybe it just isn't really that funny to other people, but it was a defining point of our trip.
ANYWAYS, Sunday we walked to the pier and walked around there for a little and eventually hopped on the Bus Turistic, which is an unguided tour bus company that runs all over the city and has a bus at every stop about every 10 minutes. It was great- we were able to go where we wanted, when we wanted. The two best parts I would say were Sagrada Familia... which, when I first saw it from a few blocks away, made me actually gasp. (We were all gawking at it and Evelyn was looking the other way- "LOOK GUYS! There's a pizzeria!". Oh Evelina). Up close it was pretty awe-inspiring but not as great to look at because of all the construction everywhere. We ended up having lunch at Subway because we were so famished, then made our way to Parque Guell which was by far my favorite part. It was a beautiful beautiful day and the park was gorgeous. Also, a band from southern Spain that we had seen the other night was playing at the top of the park, and seeing them again made our day. We danced. We were merry. We then went shopping for Gaudi souvenirs and slowlllly made our way back home where we all passed out for a few hours before ordering some incredibl Italian pizza (sorry Jess and Adj) and getting ready for the night.
We met up with some guys who are studying in Sevilla that we met in the hostel and went to Chupitos, a bar that has all sorts of crazy shots. Anne did the "Monica Lewinsky" which consisted of a beer bottle, a dildo, and whipped cream. Some other ones we did were boyscout (marshmallows that you could roast in a fire on the bar and a delicious shot that you put the marshmallow out in), Finding Nemo (blue shot, green M and M, whipped cream), a Kiwi shot that was on fire (that was the most descriptive Evelyn could get), and various others. We had a great time, then made our way back to the hostel because Jess and Adriana had to leave :(. The next day the rest of us went to the aiport and although we made it back to Madrid just fine, Jackie, Evelyn, and I were stuck in the Madrid airport for about 4 hours before we could get on a bus back to Salamanca. It ended up actually being really fun and the three of us had some great conversations over coffee, sandwiches, doughnuts, and bread stolen from people's leftovers. Finally we made it back and had to face the harsh reality of another full week of cursos.
It was one of the best weekends I've had in a long time and seeing all of those girls was much needed and so incredibly refreshing. I really have felt rejuvinated since being back and I owe that to Barcelona, of course, but mainly to the people I was with. Not everybody was best friends or even friends at all, but the 7 of us got along SO well and I think the group dynamic really made the trip for everyone. Plus, I got to see my wonderful wonderful suitemates whom, I have realized, it is actually a crime to live without.
YOU MADE IT! Almost over. Finals for cursos are this and next week, then we go to Andalucia (we'll be in Sevilla on my birfday!), then we come back and I have literally two days in Salamanca before leaving for my 3 week spring break. YIKES. I was pooped after 4 days in Barcelona, I can't imagine what this is going to be like. But I am extremely excited and ready to spend every last euro that I have (and by ready I mean I'm starting to look for places on the street I can build my cardboard box house). I will try to write more often so that my next entry isn't one giant blob (it's been fun though, at least a little, right?)
So about the prize... I'm waiting for confirmation from a special someone as to whether or not I can post it... SORRY I'M A TERRIBLE PERSON. You'll have to come back later for the prize. I didn't mean to trick you but I guess now you have incentive to come back again! For now I'll just give you a REALLY BIG SMOOCH (which should be a good enough prize in itself, you greedy bastards).
Pues, hasta la proxima vez. I hope that everyone's semesters/lives are going well and that wherever you are in the world you are happy, healthy, and safe. Keep in touch!
Besos,
Amanda
P.S. I forgot the best part of everything ever. When Enrique says anything in English it is the funniest... one day he said a few sentences of his lecture in English and he had this ridiculous look on his face like he was trying to imitate los americanos (ouch) and Jackie and I didn't stop laughing the entire class. But a few days ago, he was trying to explain something about eggs (I have no idea what, he talks about the weirdest stuff at the most random times/at all times) and nobody understood because it was so random (not because we didn't know the word "huevo") but he thought he needed to translate anyway and said "Echh" (like a throaty sound). He said it about 10 times which confused us all more until we realized that he was saying "Egg" but in Spanish they pronounce "g" as "hhhh", or like the Hebrew "chh". The image of him saying it and the sound he was making is just too much. Hilarious. Anyways, any time I'm ever sad I think of that and it instantly brightens my day. Maybe it will do the same for you.